How to Have a Healthy Mindset for Achieving Goals

It is now 2009 and most of us have decided to make some positive changes in our lives to help us grow over the next year. In making these changes it is important to begin with a healthy mindset.

What is a Healthy Mindset?

Here are a few points for understanding what a healthy mindset is and how it plays a role in our success for long term lifestyle changes and personal growth:

  1. Understand that it is unreasonable to expect perfection. We are imperfect people in imperfect bodies living in an imperfect world. When we expect perfection and things don’t go just right, we typically sabotage our progress and give up! Always remember that with our shortcomings comes room to learn and grow. By keeping our focus and being persistent in striving towards our goals, the growth we achieve will mold us into the people that God intends for us to be.
  2. Don’t compare yourself to others! The LORD made us who we are and has us where we are for a reason. Every story has a beginning and an ending, but it’s the in-between that defines that story. It’s important to remember that every one of us is at a different place in our story. Some are further along and some are have a long way to go. If we play the comparison game, it becomes too easy to get discouraged. I recall the quote – “Be patient, God’s not finished with me yet!” This is good advice for each of us to keep in mind as we strive to complete our journey in life. And if we do our best and work diligently, then our lives will be even better than we could ever imagine. This brings to mind a biblical quote from 2 Chronicles, which states: “But as for you, be strong and do not give up, your work will be rewarded.”
  3. And last, but not least, learn to be content in all that you are. Growth doesn’t always move in a straight line, but usually zigzags. There will be peaks and valleys. The important thing is to have contentment no matter the circumstance. Whether in the ups or downs, learning contentment brings peace to our spirit and will keep us moving in the right direction. In John 14:27, Jesus said: “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

By staying true to these simple steps, I believe we can have success in making positive changes to our lives this year and in the years to come!

1 reply
  1. ARTs Musings
    ARTs Musings says:

    Hi Barry,

    You brought up a very important and not often talked about point – Healthy Mindset.

    What stuck out most for me today was point #2 – Don’t compare yourself to others. Most of us do this sometimes, some of us do it all the time.

    I was just talking with a business associate this morning and he did just that. He was pointing out how he’s not at the level of success he wants to be at and how another associate is. You just can’t compare yourself to others (I told him) because your focus is taken away from what you want and putting it on what you don’t have. Also, think more about how far you’ve come instead of how far you have to go.

    It’s who we become along the journey that makes it so special. Focusing internally, on ourselves, make us into the person we need to be in order to have what we want.

    Great post Barry!

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